The immateriality of memories

I’ve been in a quiet, pensive mood for the past week or two, as the post-school calm starts to seep in. After the hurly-burly of the last three weeks and constant activity has passed, the stillness and quiet feels somehow wrong. I find myself with much less to do, and I feel strangely cranky and melancholy because of it.

It was in this state of mind that I stumbled across today’s NPR’s “Day to Day”, which had the most beautiful, heartbreaking segment entitled “Saving Phone Messages as a Living Memorial”. Here, Dmae Roberts talks about (and shares) phone messages from her mother, who passed away two years ago.

Saving Phone Messages as a Living Memorial

My story has been intrinsically linked to my mom’s story—a world war two Taiwanese woman who never had a childhood because she was sold as a baby to be a servant to other people-her adopted step-parents.

It constantly amazes me how the cold, clinical touch of technology can transport such intense, almost overwhelming warmth and humanity. This is one of most moving, sublime things I have ever heard.

Listen to the segment as an MP3 stream or a realaudio stream. You can also read the transcript at Stories1st.org.

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1 | Pamela said on May 30, 2004 1:10 PM

I finally got up the courage to listen to this...I can't find the words to express how I'm feeling right now. It is beautiful and moving and heartbreaking and sad all at the same time. I wish I could hear my Mother's voice just one more time. What a gift. Thanks for sharing this Neil.

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2 | chris said on May 30, 2004 9:44 PM

So many people around me seem to be in the reflective mood you describe. There is definitely a sense of stillness and "something is about to happen" in the air.

I think it's partially the time of year and the never-ending rain; but I also think it's because a lot of us are facing change. I think all we need to do is be a little brave, a little patient and listen to our hearts and we'll do fine.

Glad to be surrounded by wonderful people like Pixelgirl and you.

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3 | Dmae said on June 12, 2004 12:24 AM

Thanks so much for your kind words and for letting people know about my radio piece. I've heard from dozens of people, many who have their own phone messages they keep saving like I do every 100 days...

You have a great site....Take care, Dmae

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